One of my not so guilty pleasures is the new Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) and, in particular, its riveting new series Our America with Lisa Ling. Oh my does Lisa Ling BRING IT. Pursuing the stories often ignored by the main stream media (MSM), in the mere two episodes that have aired since its debut, Lisa Ling has managed to provide compassionate insight into two very different worlds - that of faith healers and, this last Tuesday, on the lives of transgendered people.
The perplexity with which I think most initially encounter the idea that bodies don't necessarily coincide with sex and that gender is much more mysterious than genitals I think reveals how oblivious many of us often are to the complexities and wonder of identity formation. "How can someone not be what they so obviously are?" can very easily give way to a profound encounter with the groundlessness of self formation. This, obviously, can be very very scary, and unfortunately, this deep self-annihilating fear can very quickly degrade into violence. The transgendered are some of the most vulnerable in our society with statistics indicating that hate crimes against the transgendered community are especially heinous. And this, this is tragic indeed.
The Buddha, himself, did not explicitly talk about transgenderism, but the androgyny that often accompanies many of his depictions does speak to the impermanence of gender and sex manifestations. And obviously, even the most crude understanding of reincarnation points to the fact that Buddha nature finds homes in both male and female form - again and again and again and again. Even the Primordial Rigden (representing the enlightened, basic goodness of all sentient beings) in Shambhala teachings is explicitly an androgynous figure as she resides in the cosmic mirror space before sex discrimination and form. Since our language and world is so binary and distinctively sexed, it is not surprising that our categories and concepts are inadequate and, even in their creative capacity, fail to articulate the profundity of all lived experience - often even making that experience for many unintelligible and frustratingly limited. So this Thursday is dedicated to all the fearless gender and identity warriors that are traversing the groundless state of being a bit more intimately than many of us often have to. And watch the episode on OWN please. Really.
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thank you
thank you so much for the link to that episode. it brought up so many emotions. <3 as a child who felt totally misplaced in my gender (and still awkward in it, tho getting used to it after how many years?), i struggled desperately in school. i am so grateful to my parents who accepted and encouraged me to just be who i was, and never tried to change me. and grateful for a changing world that allows more freedom across those imaginary lines.
hi monica...
i'm just seeing this comment now. i was woefully inadequate at keeping up with the conversation once a blog post was written. thank you for this and for your fearlessness. i hope your 2013 is brilliant and kind. x
Shifting ground.
You say, '"How can someone not be what they so obviously are?" can very easily give way to a profound encounter with the groundlessness of self formation.'
That sense of groundlessness is something that I think seeps into my life the more I practice meditation and contemplate these ideas.
I like how you mention that encountering a person with a sex we did not expect, or a person with an ambigious or unexpected sexual identity can also give us a sense of groundlessness as well. It would be a better world in which transgendered or multi-sex persons were more a part of the day to day experience of life, but analyzing our own vertigo when a person causes us to get a bit off-center will help us personally treat each person with kindness and respect.
thank you...
...for the kind and thoughtful words. in that space of "off-centeredness" the ground is, of course, precarious. one hopes it compels compassion, but it is certainly never guaranteed to do so.
Gendering not really discussed in traditional buddhism
I agree with what Nancy says below.
There are many areas where postmodern identity theory and movements can inform traditional asian masculine femine role splits that are crucial for the evolution of dharma, as dharma is all about an exploration of core identities.
questioning gender constructs
is an essential step on the path to enlightenment, as far as I'm concerned. who were you before your sex organs were formed? what makes you male? what makes you female? what assumptions do you make about people based on the gender you presume them to be? how would you feel differently if that changed? would your best girlfriend be your best boyfriend? your best friend? would your husband be your spouse if he became a woman?
I am fortunate to have some extraordinary transpeople in my life. talk about living mindfully -- this gets to our most deeply held beliefs about ourselves.
thank you, lani! I'm hoping to find time to watch this.
oh...
...thank you for this too. you'll love the episode. really. and the delightful habitual stubbornness so much of our identity is formed though and by is so lucky to have those who challenge its assumed naturalness daily.