If you were to go lululemon.com today, you'd see a photo of the Dalai Lama with a quote from His Holiness: "Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive." Presumably, pricey yoga clothes are not in the same category.
My son reached for my phone and excitedly recorded his question: “Hi, Siri, Can we eat chocolate?!” To which Siri responded, “One moment please.” The phone’s screen then quickly populated with multiple definitions for the word "ejaculate." With a confused look on his face, my son handed me the phone. Seeing the definitions and repeating in my mind the tone with which my son asked his question and visualizing the shape his mouth made when he spoke the words, I pictured his wide toothy smile, followed by his eager voice hurriedly asking, “eat chocolate,” and I fell to the floor laughing.
The Dalai Lama, the world's best-known Tibetan Buddhist, stirred things up this week with an interview in which he seemed to suggest that he should be the last to hold that title. “The 14th Dalai Lama now is very popular. Let us then finish with a popular Dalai Lama,” he told a German newspaper, which interpreted it to mean he did not want a successor.
When my three-year-old daughter walked into the room wearing her new gift, a pair of plastic, bedazzled play-heels, or princess shoes, as they're often called, I looked down at her feet and felt the urge to vomit. I was instantly overcome with fury. Surrounded by my in-laws and piles of birthday detritus, I struggled to get my bearings.
I often feel that my kids are pint-sized Buddhas. They force me to get all sorts of uncomfortable and face things I'd love to distract away. They call me out on emotions I'm otherwise quick to dismiss or bury. And when I most need a pause and least want one (which is alm
Lately, I've been reading more and more Facebook updates and Huff Post-type articles urging people to "do what you love" and "live your dream". Considering it's an incredibly difficult economic time and the U.S. has a 6.3% unemployment rate (for African Americans it's 11.5%), and the poverty rate is ~16 percent of the population, these seem like absurd suggestions. Not to mention that actually living right here right now is reality, and reality is where wisdom and compassion exist, not in a future fantasy or dream.